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Hello Amazing person, if you are like me, you probably know the feeling of failure. You probably know what it feels like to be denied your goals and to hate the feeling that follows.
- To not hack that machine you’ve been trying to hack all week
- To not get that job that you have been after for a month
- To not pass that exam on your first try which you can’t stand
These feelings are normal and i want to talk to you about how you can handle them.
First of all, it’s important that you understand it’s okay to feel sad and down and that’s okay to fail. This might seem very obvious, but please don’t underestimate this. Think back to the last exam you failed and how you felt, i bet you it was anything but okay.
That being said, i am sure you drew a lesson from that instance and i am sure it made you into a better person and i hope you can see that every failure which leads to a failure is not a failure after all … it’s merely a lesson.
That, my dear viewer/reader, is the essence of learning. We have to make mistakes in order to understand what we should and should not do because, let’s be honest, it’s not easy to explain every little detail to another person. What we know is known to us but we often can’t explain all the things we feel and touch and experience…
